As black men we go through so much and never really get a chance to heal most times because our society expects us to be strong, and not come off as weakling.
The society would rather prefer the men to always keep it together and not express their pain. But I tell what today, 99% of black men, whether you agree with this stats or not, are scarred and damaged due to this warp belief system. And it seems nobody notices or even cares!
There is need to bring awareness that men deserve to be listened to and heal properly before going into any kind of relationships otherwise their partners may have to pay for it. This is the rootcause of most toxic break ups, sexual abuse and domestic violence.
They must get healed properly either from that childhood trauma or past toxic relationships with opposite sex or blood relations, confidant etc.
Because trust me based on my findings and data, tons of these men might never show it to the world but they need to get healed anyways!
To all men out there, you deserve serenity, seek it! And the first to step towards this, is the admittance that you need it.